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When men are looking for a partner to take seriously for a long-term relationship, they looked to a woman's vibrancy. A
positive attitude goes hand-in-hand with energy. Men are attracted to women with a positive, energetic attitude toward
life and relationships.
Think about times in your life when you have felt depressed or down in the dumps. What happens to your energy?
When things go wrong, our mental energy shuts down. For people with clinical depression, it can get to the point where
getting out of bed is difficult because of a loss of interest and motivation for pursuing goals.
The opposite happens when we become excited about some event in the future. When you get a raise or simply realize
it's Friday afternoon and you have the weekend off, your energy increases. In other words, positive expectations for the
future increase energy while loss or negative expectations about the future shut down our mental energy.
A woman's capacity for reproduction is intricately interlaced with her energy level and attitude toward life. It may not be
romantic, but these unconscious psychological factors influence the primal attraction men feel toward a partner or
potential partner. Research studies have confirmed that the number one reason men give regarding their initial
attraction to a woman they later asked to marry comes down to this: 'I don't know how to explain it. She seemed so
happy and energetic.'
There are many ways to be energetic. You can tailor this information to fit with your particular personality and style.
For example, some women enjoy playful banter that demonstrates the sharpness of their wit, while other women show
their energy in their facial expressions and playful physical gestures. The key is to allow your positive energy to shine
through and be visible on the outside.
The Next Layer of Attraction
Physical attraction gives a spark to a relationship, but it remains an important factor in long-term relationships and
marriages. Keeping that spark alive requires attention and conscious effort to keep your man interested and hooked by
desire. That said, a man's evaluation of a woman has to do with more than just physical attraction. In this section were
going to discuss the two most powerful variables that a man evaluates in a woman's personality. These two powerful
variables can be summarized with two questions:
1. 'Will she enhance my freedom or interfere with my freedom?'
2. 'Will she contribute to my success or interfere with my success?'
Not all men have enough introspection to explain it with words, but all men have an obsession with freedom. We don't
like to answer to a boss. We enjoy camping out and hunting because it makes us feel the thrill of freedom, playing
around with the idea that we could survive all on our own in nature. Most entrepreneurs are men. The number one
driving force behind the long hours entrepreneurs put into a new business is the desire to be free. It's ironic that men
will work many more hours with fewer benefits and lower pay in order to achieve a sense of independence.
So where do you fit into a man's desire for freedom? The answer is complicated and depends on many factors that
have to do with his particular circumstances, hobbies, and sources of joy in life. The key is for you to ask that question
yourself. Where do you fit into your man's desire for freedom? By asking this question you empower yourself to interact
with him in ways that cause him to evaluate you as a good long-term partner. For example, a women who freely
encourages a man to take time to spend with the guys is the same woman who will be pursued to the point that 'the
guys' get irritated at his absence while he spends all his time chasing her.
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