Even though the model in the picture has small breasts , she has a great deal of sex appeal to men because of the curve of her waist . Notice how she pushes her hip out to one side to accentuate this . You don ' t have to be this skinny to get the effect . However , if your belly protrudes to the front or sides to such an extent that your curve is reversed , you really should invest in your love life by taking the difficult steps toward losing weight . Another powerful factor is a woman ' s hair . Don ' t cut your hair short . It may be in style and it may be cute , but it will not attract men on a primal level . Without going into all the details , I ' ll just say that you should aim for the longest hairstyle you feel comfortable with that is currently in style .
You probably don ' t need to be reminded of this one , but anything you can do to improve your complexion will have an enormous impact on that unconscious evaluation process that a man ' s mind does . The truth is , makeup works . If you ' ve already done everything you can to naturally improve your skin complexion , and you don ' t have particularly nice looking skin , you can trigger a man ' s attraction by using a light cover that improves the appearance of pores and complexion .
Another area where makeup has an effect on men is darker or longer eyelashes . Everything else will make little impression on a man . In fact , using rouge and any lipstick color other than red will have no impact on the biological attraction response a man experiences . It can actually detract from his attraction to you .
You may think only a shallow person would judge someone else based on the size of the pores in her skin or the length of her eyelashes . But remember , this is an automatic process in the mind of a man . It cannot be turned off . It ' s like opening your eyes and trying not to see the tree in front of you . Your brain automatically decodes the barrage of light striking the retina in your eye and sends an image to your mind . You can ' t stop doing it . In the same way , a man cannot turn off the automatic sense of attraction he will feel toward a woman whose physical characteristics accentuate her feminine traits and sexual vibrancy .
All of these factors have to do with sexual vibrancy . Healthy skin , long hair , and womanly curves trigger a man ' s brain to mark you as a good sexual partner who is healthy enough to produce offspring . It sounds terribly unromantic , but from his desire to have sex comes his desire to become a good mate for you . Embrace this truth and set yourself free from any insecurities or fears you have about using your sexuality to attract a quality man . Here ' s the good news . A man will automatically judge a woman ' s sexual vibrancy based on her overall energy and attitude , not just her physical characteristics . Think about what the word ' vibrant ' really means . Here are the definitions from the Encarta ( North American ) English dictionary . Read each one to get a sense of the rich meaning behind this word .
1 . Energetic full of liveliness or energy
2 . Pulsating with energy seeming to quiver or pulsate with energy or activity
3 . Resonant having a full rich sound that tends to continue for some time
4 . Bright dazzling or radiantly bright
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