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The person who was broken up with either did, or did not do something
and the person doing the splitting simply felt driven away or lost hope of
any future for the relationship.
So, now what happens, and how can you manage to get your ex to come
back?
The first step is to change whatever it was that drove your ex away in
the first place.
You need to sit down and really take a hard look at your situation. What
could have led to the breakup? Which of those things were your fault,
and which were not your fault?
Rule out the ones that were out of your control, since they continue to be
out of your control, and focus on the things that you did do wrong, the
ones that you can, in fact, change. If your biggest problem is something
that you were responsible for and that you could change, then there is a
very good chance that you can still get back together, as long as you
really are willing to make the necessary changes to appeal to your ex
again.
When you can start focusing on the things you can change then you no
longer have to ask the question: "How can I get back with my ex?"
because you will know the answer.
Take An Emotional Vacation!
Most people find themselves asking "What can I do to get my ex
girlfriend back" following a breakup.
They begin to start thinking and philosophizing about everything that
could have been done differently. They even begin to make plans about
apology letters and other things that might be able to help them score
their relationship back.
This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you
can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup.
Breakups are based upon emotions and sometimes we do not even know
what led to the break up at hand and may not know what is making us
feel the way we are feeling. In many circumstances it is only harmful to
lose all your energy trying to figure out the emotional reasons for what
went wrong.
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