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The first main strategy to answer the question: "What can I do to get my
ex back?” is to forget about the relationship for a while, putting your
energy into something else. Go out, make friends, have fun, network, and
forget about the opposite sex in general. Set some realistic goals about
expanding your repertoire when it comes to meeting new people.
Give yourself a couple of months and make changes in your life. Take
some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.
The effect that strategies like this will have, is that it will allow you to
make gradual changes in your life and in how you perceive the subject of
relationships. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of
how, or even if, you want to proceed with your ex.
You'll know if you still want to get back together with your ex or are
ready to move on. Then, act accordingly. If you still want to get back
together with your ex, it might be time to figure out how she is feeling
about you.
Now is your chance to be a little more direct when it comes to getting
your ex love back. You need to play strategically, however. Do not simply
beg them to get back with you, because this is not a good time to be
emotional.
Instead, what you should be doing is playing things cool with your ex. If
you have spent enough time apart from them they are probably missing
you just as badly. Play hard to get a little (don't over do it) and show
(don't tell) them that you are doing fine without them. This will inspire
her to really rethink things.
And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, now is
the time when it will become apparent. Be careful not to analyze things
too much, because over analyzing may prevent you from acting the right
way when trying to figure out your next steps. Just take things slow and
play them cool and you should be fine.