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Athletics Locker Room Renovation Memorializes Christopher Duffy ’96 Before 2017, the Prep’s locker rooms were, to be polite, vintage. They retained their original 1972 look, having received very few updates in 45 years. In 2016, David Randell P ’15, ’17, ’20 led a group of Prep families that were committed to updating the locker rooms in the gym and off the Commons. Through the generosity of the Fordham Prep community, the group already renovated two of the gym locker rooms in the summer of 2017. But two others, including the first floor, varsity locker room, still needed upgrades. Through a chance conversation and a phone call, a family came together to honor their fallen son, brother and Prep alumnus. John Duffy P ’95, ’96, ’99 was very familiar with the Prep. He grew up a mile south of the campus and attended St. Simon Stock Grammar School on 182nd Street. The Prep was John’s first choice, but when he was accepted, his sister sat him down and laid out his family’s financial situation. “Growing up in a single-parent home, I knew we couldn’t swing the $400 tuition for Fordham Prep. So I went to Cardinal Hayes.” After graduating, Duffy had another flirtation with Rose Hill. “I almost went to Fordham University, but again money was a factor, so I went to City 12 | RA MVIE W College.” Despite traveling to Manhattan, Rose Hill was always in his heart and mind. between the ages of 12-18 and the Jesuits have a reputation of reaching them.” Duffy graduated from CCNY and eventually joined Keffe, Bruyette and Woods (KBW) in 1978, where he rose to become CEO and Chairman. He married Kathy Langan and they raised five children in Crestwood. When his older son, Brian, was looking at high schools, a familiar name went to the top of both Duffy and Langan’s list. “We grew up in the Bronx, so we were well aware of Fordham Prep,” says Langan. “He chose Fordham Prep with no influence from us.” Langan agrees. “Their Jesuit education was well-rounded. They formed moral and religious values, and open their minds intellectually with fairness and understanding.” “Once Brian got in and chose to go to Fordham Prep,” says Duffy, “the other two boys followed.” Fordham Prep was more than just an education for the Duffy boys - both Duffy and Langan wanted their sons to experience a much broader student experience. “The excellent Jesuit education was just a part of it,” states Langan. “We wanted to open their eyes to a more diverse world than what they knew; that’s a part of growing.” Both Duffy and Langan were impressed with the education their sons received. “I wasn't shocked at the quality given the school's reputation,” says Duffy. “The reputation of teachers and the curriculum was impressive. Boys are vulnerable The three Duffy boys participated in sports at Fordham Prep. Brian golfed, Christopher played football, freshman basketball and lacrosse, while Kevin also chose lacrosse. But their parents made connections through athletics as well, “ We made wonderful friendships throughout the years from being a part of a team, and that camaraderie followed them throughout their lives,” Langan asserts. “Christopher was captain of the lacrosse team and a four-year member of the football team. He was a leader with a strong personality. He wasn’t the most gifted football player, but he stuck with it, determined to play,” says Duffy of his middle son. “He became the starting fullback his senior year. He carried the banner of Fordham Prep very well. He picked up lacrosse his sophomore year and while he wasn’t the most ‘artistic’ lacrosse player, he liked to hit and loved the competition. Academics are primary, but it’s important to be