FLQ Lifestyle
#4 THEY ARE
BORED WITH THE
RELATIONSHIP.
Once . the fun of being
newlyweds and in love
starts to be tainted by
mortgage payments,
children, and the strains of
extended family, being in a
committed relationship
gets, well, boring.
Wanting just a little
attention and exhilaration,
some people cheat for no
other reason than boredom
in their current relationship
and wanting excitement.
Not thinking about the
consequences, they take a
chance to have some cheap
thrill hoping not to be
discovered.
#5 THEY ARE
LOOKING FOR A
WAY OUT OF THE
RELATIONSHIP.
Some people aren’t secure
enough in themselves to
leave a bad relationship
without jumping ship.
Sometimes they need a
little help in the form of
finding someone else who
thinks they are
worthwhile enough to
push them to leave a
failing relationship.
Already disconnected
from their current
commitment, finding
someone to cheat with,
gives them the confidence
and security they need to
move on and out.
#6 THEIR
EMOTIONAL OR
SEXUAL NEEDS
AREN’T BEING
MET WITHIN THE
RELATIONSHIP.
It is very difficult
sometimes to
have all your
needs met in a
relationship.
Instead of
working on the
current
commitment
made, people go
outside of their
relationship to
get their needs
met. That can
come in the form
of sexual and
emotional
fulfillment.
If someone isn’t getting what they need in their current
relationship, and there is someone outside of the marriage willing
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to give them what they crave, the pull is sometimes enough to