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FLQ Lifestyle #7 THEY GET CAUGHT UP IN A MOMENT. We don’t always make the best decisions in the heat of the moment. Sometimes people cheat because they are drunk, upset, or just making a poor choice. Not considering the consequences or fallout, people in committed relationships slip up. Albeit, a huge slip-up! But, sometimes passion and outside influences can be enough for someone to make a bad decision that they end up regretting. #8 THEY FEEL UNAPPRECIATED AND UNLOVED. It is not uncommon for one or both partners to feel unappreciated or unloved in a relationship. There are times when you feel like if you just disappeared no one would even notice. Being lonely when you are alone is a horrible feeling. Being lonely when with someone is sometimes even worse. People sometimes cheat because they get to the point where they don’t feel any connection or that they mean anything to the person they are with and ask why not? #10 THEY ARE NARCISSISTIC. A narcissist is someone who cares only for their own needs. If you don’t satisfy them or you don’t adore them the way that they believe you should, someone who is narcissistic will have no problem going outside of the marriage to get their needs met. Having no ability to empathize, the cornerstone of a narcissist, they are incapable of seeing or caring about how it makes the other partner feel. If it makes them feel good, that is all that they need to know or care about. If you aren’t in love or if you aren’t % into the relationship, then you have an obligation to let the other person know and to finish one relationship before you take on another. 65