FLQ Lifestyle
#1 THEY HAVE PARENTS
WHO CHEATED ON ONE
ANOTHER.
We grow up learning from what we live.
If you saw one of your parents’ cheat on
another, then it is not uncommon for the
trend to continue.
Learning respect and commitment by
modeling what we see is one of the
biggest reinforcing elements not only to
a mature and happy marriage but to
having a heavily committed one as well.
#2 THEY ARE VERY
INSECURE.
Often when someone is highly insecure,
they cheat on their significant other.
Needing constant attention, praise, or
the euphoria of having someone adore
them is a very strong need for people
who are insecure.
Once the puppy love part of a
relationship dies down, people who
aren’t secure in themselves often look
for someone outside of the relationship
to make them feel relevant and
worthwhile.
#3 THEY DON’T BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY.
Some people believe monogamy is attainable and some don’t. Not everyone who
enters into marriage and says I do really means I do. Sometimes they get married
simply because it is the next step, or they feel compelled to make things official.
If you don’t have a belief in the sanctity of marriage, when times get tough, it is
much easier to get fulfillment with someone outside of the marriage than to work
hard at trying to fix what is wrong within. If you want to ensure you are in a
committed relationship, ask your significant other if they think monogamy is
possible to begin with.
Making a commitment in marriage is a very heavy thing and not to be entered
lightly or without the intention to be monogamous. Unfortunately, not everyone
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feels the same way