Family & Life Magazine Issue 6 | Page 19

Character = cademiclence A Excel More Than a Decade in Character Building In today’s digital age, it has become even harder for parents to prepare their children for the pressures of school and adult life. We take a look at the Character Montessori programme, a specially-designed approach that purportedly offers your child one of the best possible starts. What are your most memorable success stories of children who are part of the Character Montessori programme? Grace: We once had a boy named Ian who was very unhappy in his previous school and had always complained that he had no friends there. His parents also witnessed first-hand how his classmates did not want to sit next to him, so they approached us and enrolled him in our school instead. I was pleased to hear that after nine months, Ian had transformed into a confident and socially adept child. The best part: all of his classmates were his friends! His parents’ close friends and relatives also noticed the tremendous improvement in Ian’s character and social skills. At home, Ian’s mother noticed that her little boy had become very independent and confident, finding ways to keep himself busy instead of demanding for his mother’s attention, which he was previously fond of. When Ian went to Primary One, he was even given leadership positions in class! How does the CM programme help to prepare a child for school and subsequently, adult life? Grace: Well, the onset of the digital age has shrunk the world and changed the skills necessary for Singaporeans to compete on the global stage. Our country’s education system is now trying to help our children to develop skills such as teamwork, creative thinking, etc. Unfortunately, the focus is still on written exams; to do well in such exams, there is still a lot of pen and paper work. Thus, to be successful in navigating school, we inculcate in children the traits of confidence, resilience, boldness, attentiveness, patience and more as a foundation to meet these shifting demands of life. When we train children to wait for their turn, they develop the ability to delay gratification and gain self-control. Professor Walter Mischel’s famous Stanford University marshmallow test showed a striking correlation: pre-schoolers who could wait 15 minutes for their treat had significantly higher SAT scores and had less substance abuse later in life compared to those who could not wait. In Character Montessori, character traits such as independence, boldness and creativity are taught, caught and practised daily. Grace Yong is the founder and current principal of Character Montessori, and is the first certified Singaporean Character Education Practitioner, accredited by The Abraham Lincoln Centre for Character Development (USA). Grace also holds a Master in Education from James Cook University. Call 65070 444 [email protected] www.cm-preschool.com Join our facebook group parents4character A Beautiful Transformation Counts Ang Mo Kio Punggol 161 Ang Mo Kio Ave 4 420 Punggol Rd New New Yishun 2 Yishun Ind St 1 Northpoint BizHub Bishan 1 Pemimpin Dr One Pemimpin (Franchise-Biz Available) Mar 2014 • Family & Life 19