Family & Life Magazine Issue 6 | Page 17

NURTURE The Pornification of Our Young An over-sexualised culture coupled with using the female body (and increasingly, the male body) to sell products is becoming an unhealthy norm. We tackle how the pornification of the human body in the media is having an unhealthy impact on our children. From Miley Cyrus seductively licking a sledgehammer to a bevy of topless models cavorting in pop star Robin Thicke’s summer hit music video Blurred Lines to Victoria’s Secret new PINK brand that has a range of underwear specifically targeted at young teenagers with words such as “Wild” and “Call Me” emblazoned on the back, it is clear that today’s marketers and influencers are pushing the boundaries of sexuality to sell their products and offerings. The unwitting pawns in this game of sexual one-upmanship are young children; girls begin to believe that their self-worth is measured by how much they bare in public while boys start forming a distorted view of women and reality. Similar to the effects of pornography on the brain, studies have shown that sexualisation or hypersexualisation interferes with children’s and adults’ ability to develop a healthy sense of sexuality “on [their] terms and disrupts the possibility of healthy intimacy”. Melissa Wardy, author and mother of two, believes there is so much sexualisation in the media that the public has become massively immune to it. “Sexualisation has become more gratuitous and accessible and we regularly see the sexualisation of young girls in the media without public outcry. As one media content creator pushes the envelope, the bar slides. Then, everybody begins to get away with more. Then comes the next one who needs the shock factor, and so on. I would not say society has become more accepting of it. Rather, we have become desensitised to it.” Renowned presenter, speaker and activist Cordelia Anderson fully agrees with Melissa. She says: “More sexually harmful images and messages have become the new normal. What was once considered ‘explicit’ is now tame and the hypersexualisation of children as well as the pornification of images of all ages is becoming increasingly mainstream, if not already so.” The proliferation of digital devices such as smartphones and tablets in today’s society have also contributed to this epidemic. Wardy indicates that this shift from personal to digital communication allows for “these sexualised images to be omnipresent, whereas a decade ago, they would have been limited to magazines, television or movies, billboards, and other traditional advertising”. And as the average age of digital device users becomes younger and younger, it means even more children are growing up surrounded by this sexual imagery and will begin to think that these are normal. And while both Wardy and Anderson do agree that there are differences in the Western and Eastern media’s sexualisation of people, the Internet has slowly but surely blurred geographical lines, according to Anderson. Wardy points out that “Western women are more often objectified in a way that is more pornographic and violent”, while Eastern countries often objectify women to “uphold homogenised European beauty ideals (white skin, round eyes, etc.)”, explaining the popularity of whitening creams in Asia. THE EFFECT OF THE MEDIA’S SEXUALISATION ON YOUNG BOYS AND GIRLS Wardy: Young girls are deeply impacted by sexualisation in the me XK