effectively.
It
is
imperative to refrain
from taking your spouse
for granted. And other
than the spiritual leader,
keep outside forces
out of your marriage.
This includes public
opinions, advice from
family or friends or
your neighbors. And
you must understand
your spouse style of
language. You both
have to be openminded, sensitive and
understanding on how
your husband or wife
feels. Your tone of
voice, body language,
fascial
expressions
and choice of words
must convey that you
love and respect your
spouse. To achieve
such
a
mandate,
you’re willing to make
a sacrifice, working
together to compliment
each other. Once you
unite
in
marriage,
you must refrain from
acting as though you
are yet single. This
demonstrates
the
message that your mate
is no longer important
to you and the marriage
is insignificant.
It must began with
acknowledging
how
you have not been
attentive in satisfying a
major need within the
marriage. That you have
allowed other things to
pre-occupy your time
and you apologize for
being insensitive and
thoughtless.
Bearing
with one another, and
forgiving one another, if
anyone has a complaint
against another; even
as Christ forgave you, so
you also must do. (Col.
3:13). And because you
aren’t going to allow
pride to get in your way,
you forgive and talk the
situation through while
listening attentively to
the other. And above all
things have fervent love
for one another, for love
will cover a multitude of
sins. ( 1 Peter 4 : 8 ).
Remember, the enemy
hates any marriage
ordained by God. And
the adversary will use
any type of distractions
and division to keep you
and spouse apart. You
must stay on guard.
And the husband must
take the lead to keep
the devil out of your
It’s not about how long marriage. The thief
you have been married. does not come except
It’s about loving and to steal, and to kill, and
respecting each other to destroy. I have come
and
treating
your that they may have life,
spouse with kindness and they may have
and
gratitude.
It’s it more abundantly.
about your attitude! (John 10:10). It is your
And
communication responsibility to take
is the major element authority, by the Holy
to
overcome
this. Spirit dwelling within
you, over the enemy
lest he get a foothold in
your marriage. Nor give
place to the devil. (Eph.
4:27). You must balance
time with anything or
anybody who try to
come between you and
your spouse spending
time together. This
includes your family/
parents,
friends,
co-workers, the job and
outside avtivities.
Always
keep
your
spouse best interest at
heart. Before discussing
the situation, come
together and go before
God in prayer for divine
intervention.
“Again,
I say to you that if two
of you agree on earth
concerning
anything
that they ask; it will be
done for them by My
Father in heaven. (Matt.
18:19). There is power
when a husband and
Childern are vital to wife agree with Jesus in
the marriage. When terms of their marriage.
a couple is in union, And when you involve
they create a safe and the Lord, the results will
secure home for their be ast