Everyday Home Magazine Fall 2014 | Page 35

BREAST CANCER AWARENESS “ ...THERE WAS A LESSON, AND IT WAS A MONSTER OF A LESSON. IT HAS BEEN 6 YEARS SINCE YOU WERE DIAGNOSED- HOW HAS YOUR LIFE CHANGED SINCE YOUR DIAGNOSIS? IS IT SOMETHING YOU STILL THINK ABOUT A LOT? It seems like yesterday in some ways and yes I do still think about it a lot. It has changed my life for the better as it still drives me to continue to pursue my passion. Just thinking about the idea of death makes me very driven to paint, write, and design beautiful spaces for others. HAD YOU KNOWN THAT YOU WERE AT RISK? I had been through several scares since my twenties about various weird lumpy things in my breast, so I was already on ‘high alert,’ as somebody who was likely to develop breast cancer someday. Back then, however, I was pretty sure I was invincible. Every time I went under the knife, I spent most of my time trying to calm down my mother so she wouldn’t have a nervous breakdown. I preferred it this way. If I was busy calming her, I wouldn’t have time to have my own anxiety, or indulge in a pity party. a good kind of cancer). This got the kids through without fear, and it helped me too, to keep reminding myself that it wasn’t a big deal. It was true that comparatively speaking, my cancer was not the worst case, but instead my problem would end up being that infections following radiation and reconstructive surgery would result in 3 weeks of hospital stays and a total of six surgeries. For the next two years, I muddled through the side effects of the ra