Everyday Home Magazine Fall 2014 | Page 34

BREAST CANCER AWARENESS Support groups, volunteer organizations, help hotlines, researchers, medical facilities and spiritual advisors are all working together towards the fight against breast cancer. With these tools, women can suit up and go head-on into battle with the confidence of knowing they have a team of advocates backing them up. Treatment is becoming more successful and less women are dying from the disease, thanks to cancer centers across the globe putting in hundreds of hours of dedicated research towards the cure. Friends and family of those who are diagnosed have been able to come together as well, whether acting personally as a pillar for their loved one, or taking on a more communal role in the fight against breast cancer through relays and charity events. Along with these supporters and increased awareness, there are things women can do personally for themselves to help reduce risk factors and lead a healthier lifestyle overall. According to the National Cancer Society Guidelines (For Cancer Prevention), it is important to take care of yourself by eating a balanced diet to maintain a healthy weight, be as physically active as possible, and limit the consumption of alcoholic beverages. That all seems like common sense, but even when we do everything right, sometimes we’re still faced with a challenge we never thought we would have to try to overcome. For a lot of women, that challenge is breast cancer and it is no walk in the park. Many celebrities and public figures in our culture silently cope with the disease and a number of them have survived it, but more and more people are beginning to speak out for women suffering in order to bring them hope and comfort. One of these brave survivors is Leslie Ezelle, a former Dallas Cowboys cheerleader turned HGTV “Design Star.” Ezelle tells us during her interview, “It is okay to NOT try to be superwoman.” We couldn’t agree more, because if there’s one thing women need during their fight against breast cancer, it is help. CAN YOU TELL US YOUR STORY OF HOW YOU FOUND OUT ABOUT YOUR BREAST CANCER DIAGNOSIS? It began with four words that nobody wants to hear, “You have breast cancer.” These words do not evoke a warm, fuzzy feeling. Fast forward through about eleven years and four surgeries to remove benign lumps from my boobies. I was forty-two, newly married to my wife Libby, and the proud new caretaker of a total of four kids. After finding yet another lump, I had been through a series of tests, biopsies, and two long weeks of waiting before I received the news. They wanted me to come into the office. That’s when I knew, It ain’t gonna be good news. I dragged Libby and my mother in there with me, so I wouldn’t have to hear the verdict alone. Once the doctor came in, it all went pretty quickly. Thankfully, she was a no-nonsense kind of gal. “You have breast cancer.” After that, I didn’t hear anything else. I remember seeing her lips moving as she was delivering the details, but I had no idea what they were saying. I was just checked out. 20 % off Be Inspired. Inspire others. $19.95 (reg. price) 20% off plus free shipping thru Oct. 31, 2014 look inside book: visit www.americanbreastcare.com/book 32 l Fall 2014 I was lucky, if having cancer can be considered lucky. I had a form of cancer called invasive carcinoma ductile cancer. This is code for “the good kind of cancer.” In other words, my chances were pretty favorable. Still, I had to endure surgery to remove the lump, a slew of reconstructive surgeries to piece me back together, plus radiation in order to eliminate the cancer completely. Fortunately for me, because vanity matters, my insurance covered the reconstruction. I wanted to look like myself again. They lopped off the left one, and then radiation, five days per week, for six weeks. Then it was time to heal. I really just wanted it all behind me. I tried to hide it from the kids most of the time. The medications, the naps, and the weird cramps I would get in my non-existent left breast--these aren’t the things you share. It was the good kind of cancer, I assured my kids of this fact, (knowing full well that there is no such thing as