Dey Dos Magazine April June 2014 | Page 22

I live to serve. In 1989, my father died, and all of sudden the feeling of insecurity stroked the 19 year old teenager Elena. In that moment I started asking myself, like any other young person at that age: “Why am I here? What is or what should be my purpose?”. I was confused. I had two options: #1 option: to complain about my situation, get frustrated and bored all day long, get mad on clients, serve them badly, ruin my day and their day as well. Without vast of the financial help that I had I was in the position of providing money at least for my university, this way taking a lot of pressure out of my mother’s shoulders. So I started working, taking the first and the only job at my disposal at that moment, something that you may call in 2014 “shop assistant.” Imagine a grocery in the communist Romania; it constantly looked like a nowadays supermarket second day after Christmas, couple pieces of bread, two types of candies, some sauce for cooking, dry biscuits and preserved vegetables in cans and almost all the time a grey, and dusty atmosphere. organiza tional development I found myself working in this sad environment, waking up every morning at 4 a.m., traveling one hour by bus, to get in time for the first clients at 5.30. a.m.; I guess is no one’s dream-job, but I had to handle the situation. Like any other human being, I was striving for a happy life, but apparently I was not there yet, I was constantly asking myself: “What