CURRENTS February 2016 Vol 29 | Page 13

Currents February 2016 By: Dr. Joanie McConnell Girls Want To Have Fun In 1983, when Cyndi Lauper hit the charts with her breakthrough single “Girls Just Want to Have Fun,” this catchy tune became an unofficial anthem for gender equality. Why, as Cyndi sang out enthusiastically, shouldn't girls have as much fun as boys? Now 33 years later, this song may seem dated and old-fashioned to American audiences, but in more traditional societies, its message appeals to the girls who, just as Cyndi crooned, want to have fun. As the barriers of traditional patriarchal values in Japan begin to crack, young women are gaining new confidence and energy in redefining their role. They reject the lifestyle of their mothers and grandmothers who managed the household, deferred to their husband's every wish, closed an eye to his possible infidelities, cared for the children, and assisted the elderly - her parents and especially the in-laws. Today young Japanese women have different expectations. They want a husband who will be a companion, friend and lover. They want to share with him the responsibilities of running their household, bringing up their children, caring for their elderly parents, and spending quality time together. They also want the option of being a working wife, especially if they have a career. We Support Our Troops continued on page 14 > 13