DANIELLE GARRINGER
Psychic Medium
Forgiveness is not about forgetting what was done, it ' s not about getting to a place where you can walk into a room with the person and act like nothing ever happened. It is not even about letting the person know you have forgiven them, true forgiveness does not require that to happen. Forgiveness is about letting go emotiona lly and energeti cally. Letting go of the guilt, anger, and sadness involved, the regain ing your own personal power back.
When someth ing happens between you and another person usually two things happen. They have so much power over you because you are angry, sad and hurt by their actions, but you also may hold a lot of guilt because you may feel you could have done something different. Each of these emotions are a link back to them, giving them power and holding you in the past. It is important to keep in mind that everything happens for a reason and although we may not know why, somewhere in this there is an important lesson to be learned.
Ever wonder how a mother could forgive the person that killed their child? They have accepted that it happened, accepted that they couldn ' t do anything to change the outcome and accepted that dwelling on it won’ t bring their child back, but only hinder them from moving forward. They have let go of the power the person had over them, and given themselves permission to take back their own power, be in control of their own lives and not live in the unchangeable past. They are not forgiving them in the sense that they will start visiting and chatting, nor to a point that they will love that person.( Although, some do manage to take it to that point) They are simply breaking the negative cord that is attached and choosing to move forward in their life.
Life isn ' t perfect, nor will it ever be. Perfection is something that we cannot have here on earth. The only perfection we have is to know we are a perfect piece in the grand scheme of the universal picture. We make mistakes, others make mistakes. We have made bad choices and so have others, but each and every piece is a lesson for us that we can either learn from or let hold us back. Forgiven ess is a powerful thing, it is a freedom that only you can give yourself.
Forgiveness doesn’ t happen overnight and it may take a few times. You may have to remind yourself several times, don’ t be too hard on yourself, it happens. It is okay to have a bad day, or even a bad week, just keep working on it. This is where you can ask your guides and angels to help you in the process. Ask them to help bring you peace and to help you get your power back. They are there for you, all you have to do is ask.
Keep your head up, remember to smile. You are uniquely you and as long as you are being active in the forgiveness process you are showing the universe you are trying, the only true way to fail is if you never try. Make the choice to release the pain, and choose to do it today.
Danielle was born and raised in Washington State( USA). She grew up in a household where Psychic abilities were normal, and talked about on a regular basis. Seeing and communicating with Spirits and Spirit Guides was just a part of life. She didn ' t realize this was not normal for the rest of the world until she was a young teenager. It was then she was told she was worshiping the devil. This scared her so much she stopped openly discussing her gifts with people outside her immediate family.
Years later she found herself questioning her abilities again and needed answers to these happenings in her life. She turned to the Internet and found actual names for her abilities, she found others could do the same and not only was it not Devil ' s work, but the Devil didn ' t exist, which felt right to her. This gave her hope and Danielle launched herself into a mission- she wanted to learn as much as she could on all the different types of abilities. She began talking to others at this time and she re-opened her channels. She started doing readings online and was opening back up to the people around her. She was confident and learning every aspect of Metaphysics she could.
Life presented her with some very tough times and that launched her into what she calls her " Dark Age ". She became very depressed and stopped listening to her Guides and one by one they all left. Over time she realized she had to come out of the slump and, as all things work in the Universe, the time was right for her to do that. As soon as she decided to come out of her depression she immediately began to meet people that would support her, teach her, and give her the confidence she needed. She hasn ' t looked back since.
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