DANIELLE GARRINGER
Psychic Medium
Forgiveness is not about forgetting what was done , it ' s not about getting to a place where you can walk into a room with the person and act like nothing ever happened . It is not even about letting the person know you have forgiven them , true forgiveness does not require that to happen . Forgiveness is about letting go emotiona lly and energeti cally . Letting go of the guilt , anger , and sadness involved , the regain ing your own personal power back .
When someth ing happens between you and another person usually two things happen . They have so much power over you because you are angry , sad and hurt by their actions , but you also may hold a lot of guilt because you may feel you could have done something different . Each of these emotions are a link back to them , giving them power and holding you in the past . It is important to keep in mind that everything happens for a reason and although we may not know why , somewhere in this there is an important lesson to be learned .
Ever wonder how a mother could forgive the person that killed their child ? They have accepted that it happened , accepted that they couldn ' t do anything to change the outcome and accepted that dwelling on it won ’ t bring their child back , but only hinder them from moving forward . They have let go of the power the person had over them , and given themselves permission to take back their own power , be in control of their own lives and not live in the unchangeable past . They are not forgiving them in the sense that they will start visiting and chatting , nor to a point that they will love that person . ( Although , some do manage to take it to that point ) They are simply breaking the negative cord that is attached and choosing to move forward in their life .
Life isn ' t perfect , nor will it ever be . Perfection is something that we cannot have here on earth . The only perfection we have is to know we are a perfect piece in the grand scheme of the universal picture . We make mistakes , others make mistakes . We have made bad choices and so have others , but each and every piece is a lesson for us that we can either learn from or let hold us back . Forgiven ess is a powerful thing , it is a freedom that only you can give yourself .
Forgiveness doesn ’ t happen overnight and it may take a few times . You may have to remind yourself several times , don ’ t be too hard on yourself , it happens . It is okay to have a bad day , or even a bad week , just keep working on it . This is where you can ask your guides and angels to help you in the process . Ask them to help bring you peace and to help you get your power back . They are there for you , all you have to do is ask .
Keep your head up , remember to smile . You are uniquely you and as long as you are being active in the forgiveness process you are showing the universe you are trying , the only true way to fail is if you never try . Make the choice to release the pain , and choose to do it today .
Danielle was born and raised in Washington State ( USA ). She grew up in a household where Psychic abilities were normal , and talked about on a regular basis . Seeing and communicating with Spirits and Spirit Guides was just a part of life . She didn ' t realize this was not normal for the rest of the world until she was a young teenager . It was then she was told she was worshiping the devil . This scared her so much she stopped openly discussing her gifts with people outside her immediate family .
Years later she found herself questioning her abilities again and needed answers to these happenings in her life . She turned to the Internet and found actual names for her abilities , she found others could do the same and not only was it not Devil ' s work , but the Devil didn ' t exist , which felt right to her . This gave her hope and Danielle launched herself into a mission - she wanted to learn as much as she could on all the different types of abilities . She began talking to others at this time and she re-opened her channels . She started doing readings online and was opening back up to the people around her . She was confident and learning every aspect of Metaphysics she could .
Life presented her with some very tough times and that launched her into what she calls her " Dark Age ". She became very depressed and stopped listening to her Guides and one by one they all left . Over time she realized she had to come out of the slump and , as all things work in the Universe , the time was right for her to do that . As soon as she decided to come out of her depression she immediately began to meet people that would support her , teach her , and give her the confidence she needed . She hasn ' t looked back since .
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