As with everything I do, I seek to take it from plain to The Diamond Standard so here are a few ways to make planned sex a staple in your bedroom arsenal:
1.Make the planned sex on a particular day but not a specific time. May sound like a no brainer but you could totally take all of the intensity, anticipation and passion out of planned sex by making it like something to do on your to do list.
2.Create sexual tension. Let it build. Pressure bursts pipes and you want the sexual tension to build up so high until your mind begins to run wild about what you will do to your mate and what they will do to you. Feed each other fleshy fruits like melons and peaches…juicy fruits that burst in your mouth. Grope each other and undress each other with your eyes. Flirt. Make sensual suggestions or drop clues about how you’re looking forward to the next episode. Remember, sex is more mental than physical.
3.Change where you have sex. I’m a huge fan of this one because familiarity sets the stage for monotony. The fear of monotony is one of the main reasons why people seek to not plan sex. Planning sex is more about knowing that you’re going to get some. It has nothing to do with how and where. Indulge in the element of location and allow that to be the spontaneous spark you need to avoid sex from being so scripted.
The frequency that you have sex has nothing to do with whether or not the sex you’re having is good. Energetically speaking, letting your sexual energy build does wonders for you if you know how to channel that energy into other areas. Sexual energy is a creative energy. It doesn’t have to only be useful in the bedroom.
Have you planned sex? How did you elevate the experience to make it more fulfilling?
Peace, Passion & Pleasure,
Paige Diamond
About the Author
Sexpert, Certified Sex Coach *& Author, Paige Diamond is a trailblazer in the area of sexuality with her innovative, relevant yet uncensored approach to intimate relationships. She has a decade of experience and has helped thousands to gain clarity and reinvent their sex lives. You can contact Paige at [email protected] & visit her at paigediamond.com.