BoldlyU Magazine Nov 2017 Indy Issue | Page 42

ST RICT LY T WEENS OVERCOMIN G PROBLEMS "A negative mind WILL NEVER GIVE YOU A POSITIVE life." When handling my problems, I like to think of the quote, “A negative mind will never give you a positive life.” When I was younger, I went through some issues in my life where keeping a positive attitude was tough. For ex- ample, My best friend and I got into a really big argument which caused major drama. I didn’t really know how to handle it in a pos- itive way, so I turned to other negative ways to deal with the problem. I used to push my problems to the side, or just not care about my decisions. However, I have realized that if you make careless decisions now, then you may end up regretting them later on in life, or it will be something you will have to live with for the rest of your life. Even though the situation was bad, I could have looked at it in a more positive way, and been understanding, instead of assuming everything she said was mean and harmful. Today, her and I are clos- er than we’ve ever been before. Sometimes when we are dealing with problems some of us feel that we have to fix it ourselves, or it’s our fault, but really we need time to process what happened, and not think the worst of the situation. In addition to keeping a positive outlook, I try to keep my faith involved with any situation I am in. My favorite bible quote that motivates me is 1 Corinthians 10:13. This verse basically states that God will never give you anything you can’t handle. 42 November/December 2017