Interpretation and Redirection
We have to believe rejection unleashes the
imagination to figure out what's the reason
behind this rejection. It triggers human's
stimulus to think about more options, these
options show us a different perspective to
understand our boundaries and how much we
are ready for another challenge.
The rejection leaves space and be open for
challenge, mission, and mentality for
enhancement and discovers many solutions.
Rejection drives our curiosity and makes us
ask people why they have different opinion
than us. Sharing each other's point of view
helps you both see things from each other's
perspective. The more we got rejected in life
the more skills and learnings we developed.
Rejection is a part of success. Remember, the
most successful people failed before they
succeeded.
"One of the most obstacles that
stop us to accept rejection is
the ego."
Followings are some steps which can help you to move from
rejection to re-direction
Identify any behaviours that may have caused the
other to reject you.
Use it as a learning experience to take ownership over what
you could have done differently. Apply the learning with all
your relationships moving forward. When we are rejected,
our knee jerk response is to defend, blame and make the
other wrong. Shifting your energy away from the other and
back onto taking complete ownership of your actions is the
path to healing.
Identify the story you are telling yourself about the
rejection.
List all the self sabotaging thoughts and beliefs about
yourself that are you fuelling your pain. For example; "I am
a failure. They must not like me. I must have said something
wrong, etc."