BIKERS CLUB AUGUST 2019 ISSUE | Page 19

Make an attempt to reconcile the relationship, in person. If the other party is not willing, then you get to let go and move on. You can't force someone to say "Yes" to you. Hearing someone tell you "No" does not make you a bad person. Forgive yourself and forgive the other. When we are rejected, we tend to go into judgement over the other and ourselves. Our assumptions over why the relationship ended are rarely true. Allow your heart to soften by practicing forgiveness. Rejection is always an opportunity to redirect by bringing ourselves back to who we truely are. Rejection is the opportunity to reconnect with God, and to make choices for the highest good for everyone involved.  Rejection is the opportunity to reconnect with God, and to make choices for the highest good for everyone involved.  You need not take rejection alone Seek the support you need so that you don't allow rejection to paralyze you. Humble yourself to the knowing that we have been put on this earth for each other. Give yourself that sense of belonging by reaching out, being vulnerable and receiving all the love and support that is available to you. Practice self care more than ever. Rejection is physical and emotional pain. Take time out and get the rest you need to heal. Treat yourself to something special. You deserve it. "Just remember, every rejection is the step forward for the fulfilment of the destiny for which you are born for." ARTICLE BY RAHUL MEHTA @ BIKERS CLUB MAGAZINE