Technically , there ' s no right or wrong way to throw a bridal shower . But this doesn ' t mean there aren ' t generally established etiquette guidelines . Avoid making a bridal shower faux pas by following these etiquette suggestions .
The bride ’ s personality dictates the format
The format of the bridal shower is dictated by the brides ’ personality . There are three constants though : food , drinks and gifts . Same brides may be game for traditional bridal shower games like creating groups creating wedding dresses from toilet paper and props . Some may prefer just sharing a meal with her ladies . Others may prefer a group spa day . Some may even be uncomfortable with opening gifts in front of an audience .
This is why it is critically important that the organiser of the shower , if not herself , had very good communication with the one person that knows the bride-to-be best . An uncomfortable guest of honour will place a damper on a fun , happy day , and it will also not leave her with happy memories of the day itself .
Although not traditional , it is a lovely gesture that the groom-to-be joins at the end . It will make the bride-to-be very happy , and there will be lovely moments to be caught on camera . He will also be very helpful in carting all the gifts home !
This is why it is critically important that the organiser of the shower , if not herself , had very good communication with the one person that knows the bride-to-be best . An uncomfortable guest of honour will place a damper on a fun , happy day , and it will also not leave her with happy memories of the day itself .
Although not traditional , it is a lovely gesture that the groom-to-be joins at the end . It will make the bride-tobe very happy , and there will be lovely moments to be caught on camera . He will also be very helpful in carting all the gifts home !
When is the best time to have the bridal shower ? In short , there is no best time , It depends entirely on circumstances . The most convenient date for the bride and the guests , is the best time , especially if there is travelling involved . Perhaps it could coincide with another event , like a family gettogether , or the bachelorette ’ s party that same night .
Invitations should be sent out at least two to four months in advance , if possible , mostly for guests , and the hosts , to budget for the expenses . Make sure to include the bride ' s name , the date , the time , the location , a way to RSVP , a dress code , and the names of whomever is hosting .