Did you know that bridal showers originated way back in the 16th century in Holland , where a father refused to provide any financial aid for his daughter ’ s wedding and marriage , which he disapproved of . The villagers got together and provided small gifts for her to start her new home with . The basic concept has remained that same , although now most bridesto-be are already running their own homes , so the level of gifting has changed from start-up to more specifically what she doesn ’ t yet have .