WHEN THE WOMAN IN HIS HEAD ISN'T THE ONE IN HIS BED CONTINUED
If I had to ask all the men I know if they were really
sexually
happy
or
fulfilled
with
their
current
relationships I don’t know how many of them would be
honest. Even if they were candid enough to admit being
unhappy I am not sure that they would connect this
unhappiness to their own unrealistic expectations. The
truth is that continuing to live with an “ideal” in the
head, can lead to all sorts of complications in the
figurative and literal bed of a relationship.When this
idea of the ideal partner is extended to the sex life then
it begins to take on a whole new dynamic.
Let’s face it girls, where guys are concerned, sex is right
up there with breathing and oxygen. Somehow their
testosterone has not only convinced them that they can’t
live without sex but they usually believe that they need
lots of it and in great variety! What happens then to a
guy’s sexual psyche when he makes a decision to keep
all of his sexual eggs in one basket as it were. I’ll tell
you what. He develops a long list of expectations which
he believes must be fulfilled in order that he might be
truly sexually happy.