Autism Research Report Autism Research Project Final | Page 22

The degree of severity in Autistics differs from person to person just like us, we as an individual are different from other people but we don’t call ourselves Autistic and medically we are not Autistic because we don’t qualify to all the symptoms. Even though medical science only prove people to be autistic with some specific symptoms after detailed diagnosis but medical science has no term for people like us who do not fit in that specific criteria. Following are some common characteristic that most Autistic people show: • Severe delays in language development Language developmental in their case is slow and there are chances that some people don’t develop language and verbal communication at all. But there are other kids as well who don’t start their speech till the time they should. There are kids who are shy from trying something new so it takes them time to open up to something big like trying and learning speech. We cannot ignore the individuals who cannot speak at all. All the mute people around do not develop their language at all. Some kids stammer when they speak, it’s not that they didn’t just developed speech late than expected but when they do they still have brakes in their words. They are typical with just trouble in speech. But we don’t call those kids who are shy, stammering and mute kids autistic. • Severe delays in understanding social relationships Autistic kids often avoids eye contact, resists being picked up, and seems to “tune out” the world around them. In other world they love to stay in their own world and avoid excessive social attraction. Isn’t that what shy and introverts do? Somewhere we all need some time to think and work and that’s when we create a bubble around ourselves in which we don’t allow people to enter. Shy and introverts even adding Ambiverts don’t open up to a 19 lot of people, in a big social gathering they don’t open up to a lot of people and find their comfort in things they love and don’t feel like having a chat with people around them. But we don’t call shy people, introverts and ambiverts by the term Autistic. • Inconsistent Patterns of Sensory Responses The individual with Autism may appear to be deaf and fail to respond to words or other sounds. At times the same individual may show extreme distress to sounds like dog barking or vacuum cleaners. Autistic individual sometimes show apparent insensitivity towards hot and cold or may over react to these. In short they react pretty different to sensory actions. How many times it has happened with the kids at our place that parents keep telling their child that they should stay away from hot tea/coffee and kids still go on taking a sip or touching the hot cup until they actually get a burn or feel the pain of that burning sensation to which they learn what not to do next time. The kid who doesn’t agree on the instructions laid by his/ her parents is not called Autistic but called a kid who don’t know. We all have kids around us, some are parents, some have immediate siblings, some have cousins, some have niece or nephews. If we are patient enough to keep trying to tell them what’s right and wrong then why can’t we do the same with Autistic kids who are just taking a little more time to get the concept. Things that irritates our state of mind are supposedly called annoying, sometimes we understand those things because there is not much that can be done but at times we try to avoid those things so we don’t kill our peace of mind and don’t mess up our mood. There might be a lot of things that annoy us way too much. Kids shouting over your head, babies crying at a movie, tapping of pen and what not. Then why your irritation is not termed as Autism.