98
Aptavani-9
Solution for suspicions
No man can be free from suspicion. When my mother
was alive, there were moments when I would get off the train at
Baroda station, I would have thoughts like, ‘What if mother died
suddenly today? How am I even going to enter the home?’ I
used to have such suspicions. All kinds of suspicions can arise
in a man. But I studied all this from all the angles and concluded
that it all mounted to nothing. This world is not such that one
should have any suspicions.
Questioner: Even I become suspicious when I get a
phone call from India, ‘What if something happened to mother?’
Dadashri: But suspicion does not help at all. It causes
misery. One never knows when an elderly person may die. Are
you able to save them? If suspicion is going to arise, keep doing
a vidhi (special inner spiritual adjustment) to the pure Soul of
that person, as follows: ‘Dear pure Soul within the (name of the
person concerned), which is separate from his dravya (discharge)
karma, bhaav (charge) karma and nokarma (neutral), please
grant peace to him.’ Do this vidhi before suspicion arises. If
suspicion arises then change it around with this vidhi.
Vyavasthit eliminates suspicion
The world is miserable from suspicions. Suspicions can
take a human being to a lower life form. Nothing is to be gained
from suspicions. According to the law of vyavasthit, no one can
destroy anything so why are you meddling needlessly by
becoming suspicious.
Vyavasthit means whatever ‘is’, is and whatever ‘is not’,
is not. Whatever ‘is’, is not going to become ‘is not’ and what
‘is not’, is not going to become ‘is’. Your meddling is not going
to change anything. Therefore, become suspicious-less. After
attaining this Gnan, you have become suspicious-free in matters
of the Soul; the awareness that you have attained is verily the
Soul and everything else is a discharge of past karmas.