Aptavani-9
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Solution for situations of extreme suspicion
This world exists because of suspicions. The very tree that
needs to dry out is the tree people ‘water’ with suspicions and
therefore it thrives even more. Therefore, it is not worth being
suspicious in this world.
Do you now get suspicious about anything in this world?
How would you feel if from a distance you see your wife sitting
on a bench with some other man?
Questioner: Now nothing will happen. Initially I would
be affected but then it would be fine. Then I would understand
that it is vyavasthit and that it has to do with past karmic ties
(roonanubandha).
Dadashri: How shrewd you are! What a tremendous
calculation to clear out your karmic account. And you will not
become suspicious will you?
Questioner: No Dada.
Dadashri: And these people start getting suspicious even
when the wife comes home late. Suspicion is not worth getting
into. Nothing is going to happen outside of your karmic account.
If your wife comes home late, explain things to her and reason
with her but do not become suspicious. Suspicion actually feeds
the problem. Yes, you have to caution her, but do not be
suspicious. Those who become suspicious miss moksha.
So if you want liberation, if you want to go to moksha, d