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eat your lunch.’ I ask you whether it would be acceptable for
me to eat a little later and you tell me, ‘No! Eat now so that we
can clean up and wind up everything,’ so I will immediately sit
down to eat. I will adjust with you. Now those who do not
adjust, the world considers as fools. If you do not adjust in
everything, what opinion will the other person have about you?
What is the definition of understanding (samjan)? That
which ‘fits,’ or that which is accepted, is called understanding.
And misunderstanding is that which ‘does not fit’; that which is
unacceptable. This is all you have to understand. Then you do
not have to see whether it is right or wrong, lawful or unlawful.
Questioner: Being the Self (chetanta) is far ahead of
understanding through the senses, is it not? Conflict will never
occur if chetanta or the Self is present, will it?
Dadashri: No, c