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gives me instructions on how to do it, but I have no faith in him,
then what should I do when the relative-self (prakruti) does not
adjust?
Dadashri: Without faith, you cannot even put your two
feet on the ground. If people know that a certain area of the
ground is hollow, then no one will set foot on it. Will anyone sit
in a ship if they know there is a hole in it?
Questioner: After this Gnan there should be spontaneity
and naturalness (sahajpanu), and if the need arises to adjust to
the other person, what should we do if we cannot adjust?
Dadashri: If that happens, ‘see’ it. ‘You’ just have to
‘see’ what ‘Chandubhai’ is doing. That is what our Gnan says.
Questioner: If we do not adjust to the other person, is
that our obstinacy (aadayee)?
Dadashri: No, there is nothing like that. Everything
happens according to the unfolding karmic account (hisaab) of
the other person with you.
Questioner: But the other person will feel hurt that he is
not being respected.
Dadashri: Then you have to make ‘Chandubhai’ do
pratikraman for that. There is no other problem with that.
How many varieties of vegetable are there?
Questioner: Many.
Dadashri: That is how this is. It is just like all the different
varieties of vegetables. Pratikraman is the only solution for all
this.
Questioner: So in such situations, should we let go or
should we hang on to it?
Dadashri: Just ‘see’ what happens.