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Aptavani-6
will open with it.
If you are not able to make the decision of whether to
stay or leave, then just leave. Yes, if you were meant to stay
back, then scientific circumstantial evidences (vyavasthit) will
bring you back. This is how you should take decisions.
Questioner: What should we do if we feel we do not
want to leave under any circumstances and yet at the same time
it keeps telling us, ‘You should go, should you not?’
Dadashri: You have to see which side is stronger.
Questioner: The stronger one tells us that we have to
stay here.
Dadashri: Then stay here if the one for staying is stronger.
Raag and Niraag
Questioner: What comes first, worldly duties (vyavahar)
or the Self and its realm (nischay)?
Dadashri: Duties of the worldly life (vyavahar) come
first but that does not mean You should get attached to worldly
duties.
Questioner: So should one become averse to attachment
(niraagi) in the worldly life?
Dadashri: Having attachment (raag) is a single mistake
and becoming without attachment (niraagi) is double the mistake.
One cannot remain niraagi.
Questioner: Niraagi in what way? Please explain further.
Dadashri: It is when one becomes abhorrent towards
worldly life (nispruha) here. By nispruha with worldly life we
mean that when a mother tells her son, ‘Why do you not listen
to me?’ the son says, ‘I have become Atma’; tha