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   Part 2 Five factors associated with successful recovery 1. Social stability: ensure that your accommodation is safe, your employment is secure, your debts are being managed and your immediate relationships are secure. 2. A strong new interest to distract you from thinking about drinking and in which you become keenly involved. The first steps Now that you’ve decided to quit drinking, where do you start? Alcohol has played an important part in your life. It will have influenced the places you've been to, the people you've met and the things you've done. Be prepared to make changes. 3. Reminders that drinking is bad news for you: fridge magnets, messages on your bathroom mirror, friends who care about you and who will, when necessary, remind you that drinking is not for you and why. From day one, there are things to do: 4. Good social support: establishing or re-establishing stable and supportive social relationships with people who want to see you stop drinking and be well. Remove alcohol from your home. Avoid pubs, clubs, bottle stores and the homes of your former drinking acquaintances. Avoid anywhere that could tempt you to buy or drink alcohol. The more difficult it is to access alcohol, the less likely you are to give in to the urge to drink. 4. A source of inspiration, hope and enhanced self-esteem that takes you beyond yourself and encourages you to develop into a better person. Take some common-sense precautions Let others know Tell your family and friends that you have stopped drinking. Ask them to help. If they say, “I’ve heard it all before,” don’t let this get you down. They’ll feel that your past drinking has made it hard for them to simply change overnight. It will take time and they’ll want to