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You start to feel good about yourself because you are ensuring you feel physically
good.
Choose a New Hobby
How you spend your time is a direct reflection of how you choose to feel and think about
your life.
Hobbies are a perfect example. Nine times out of ten, when two people enter a
relationship, their hobbies fall by the wayside.
It’s not a bad thing, necessarily. Ideally you find new hobbies you can share with a man
and others that you can enjoy on your own. You might keep one or two of your long time
favorite activities, but not all of them - there just isn’t time.
Now that you have some time to yourself, rediscover those things that always made you
happy when you were alone. The activities and hobbies that you gave up when you
started dating or things that you never had an opportunity to try but that you want to try
now.
* Cycling
* Running
* Swimming
* Board Gaming
* Knitting
* Traveling
* Writing
* Photography
* Painting
Remember, you have all this time now that can be spent on YOU, making you feel
better about yourself and installing in your mind a sense of purpose that maybe you
didn’t feel before.
When you make time for yourself, you create memories and personal connections that
are not tied to him. And when you stop defining yourself by a man, you stop NEEDING
that man.
A healthy relationship does not revolve around need. You cannot need a man and have
a healthy relationship with him. It needs to be grounded in desire and mutual trust and
love. By empowering yourself to live a life independent of him and pick up new hobbies
and generate new memories and experiences, that’s exactly what you are doing.
You are creating a person that does not NEED anyone.
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