YM Shorts Magazine Issue #5 | страница 15

The Good of DVD Curriculum How Are You Feeling? Our young adult group really benefitted from a DVD study by Chip Ingram called Living on the Edge, now called True Spirituality. The perks we found: • S t r u c t u r e d Te a c h i n g . Discussions can rabbit-trail, but there’s no way to get a recording of Chip Ingram off topic. This structure was good for us, and it led to a lot of healthy... • Silent(-ish) Learning. Our group was (is) a bunch of talkers, and we needed to learn to listen. Great discussion still took place, with the help of the study book (see next point). • Guilt-Free Discussion. Since Chip Ingram wasn’t in the room, we didn’t have to worry about hurting his feelings. We could use his video and discussion questions as a springboard, but we also felt free to think for ourselves and objectively analyze his teaching, and how to apply it to our lives. Consider these perks when deciding your next study. Scotty Meiser, Cellophane Glasses blog writer for www.Wild Frontier “Fine", they say. You know the teen is not feeling fine. Yet, this is the only answer you can get out of him/her. How do you get a different response? How do you encourage a teen to open up to you? Instead of accepting their "I'm fine" lie, encourage them to communicate. Teach them how to connect with their feelings and open up truthfully about how they are feeling. Do this by giving the teen a word list of feelings. Use adjectives to describe common feelings teens have. Use a thesaurus if you need help brainstorming enough words to make a long list. Hand the list to the teen and have him/ her circle the feelings he/she is feeling. Next have the teen hand the paper back to you. This indirect way of getting them to answer the question, "How are you feeling?," can give you the launching point for a ministry conversation. Beth Crumpler, volunteer at Lifepoint Church, www.adaptivelearnin.com/ 15