lifestyle clique
WHY RECEIVING MAKES US
UNCOMFORTABLE
Many cannot respond to receiving
something, with simple pure joy or
thankfulness.
Receivers
• Can feel guilty and/or inadequate
• Can have a sense of debt
Givers
• Can feel disappointed or ‘out of
energetic exchange’
• True intentions can be
misunderstood and future kindness
can be shut down
• Feel the need for more frequent,
grander gestures
The result of an incomplete give/
receive exchange? Giving or
receiving on it’s own will eventually
erode your self-esteem.
BUT WAIT THERE IS HOPE
As Budhha quotes:
"Before giving, the mind of the giver
is happy;
while giving, the mind of the giver is
made peaceful;
and haven given, the mind of the
giver is uplifted.
KARMA CAN’T BE TRICKED
Please be aware that if your
intention of giving, is purely to get
ahead or to gain some advantage,
the intention you are setting,
is going to trigger the law of
attraction… in the wrong direction.
Equally if you give, purely for the
joy of seeing another benefit from
your action, the laws of Gestation
and Attraction will kick in, growing
that energy of kindness and
attracting back towards you.
ALWAYS ACT WITH POSITIVE
INTENTION
Both sides benefit tremendously
when you give with authentic,
congruent intention or receive with
grace.
You can feel a deeper sense of
connection to
• The other party
• Society
• The associated cause
• How the laws are working for you.
The more consciously aware you
are of the natural laws, the easier
and quicker they start to vibrate in
your favour.
A great relationship has equal
giving and receiving from both
sides of the partnership.
As a giver you will feel understood
and fulfilled - as a receiver you will
feel balanced and valued.
AUTHOR
Mell Balment
THE RELATIONSHIP WING-GIRL
CONTACT
+61 404 192 682
WEBSITE
qtconsulting.com.au
IMAGE
Michael Coppola Photographics
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