WNY Family Magazine September 2019 | Page 13

Respond Immediately. By the third round of requests for payments for the annual yearbook, you won’t even hesitate to toss that sucker in the trash. Why? Because you always re- spond immediately to anything you want to participate in and you chuck the rest. Don’t confuse matters by waiting until later. If “immediately” doesn’t work for you, take care of multiple- step responses on Fridays or Mondays, or whatever day works best. Then, the next time the teacher is hollering through her paper megaphone that this is the tenth reminder to send in field trip money, you will smile smugly and recycle it. Because you always take care of those requests the first time around.  But It’s Art! You can keep it but have some display Faith • Family • Future Top Rated Private School in WNY PreK 3 through Grade 8 3980 Main Street, Amherst, NY (716) 835-2518 | www.StBenSchool.org cycles you put your kids’ artwork through for maximum en- joyment before the works go to the big craft heaven in the sky (or the big plastic tub in the basement or the attic or under the bed). In the meantime, hang up a “clothesline” in the kitchen, put up kid’s artwork frames around the house, and hang mag- netized strips or cork strips in their rooms for the parade of self-expression to come. If you put art up and out for a while, and take photos of it, you might be willing to let go of it sooner.  Preserve The Standouts. Your child does not want to remember that she was the last one in class to memorize her addition and subtraction tables, so throw the evidence away. But she may wish to remember the awesome story she wrote when she could barely spell about how she and her best friend stared down a millipede on the playground during recess. Set aside one large plastic tub for each child’s artwork and ephem- era. The best time for shaking down the clutter that is bound to accumulate in tubs is each summer, once you’ve regained some detachment. Birthday Pa rties New $9.00 Toddler Area 4255 McKinley Pkwy., Hamburg 4090 Maple Rd., Amherst (716) 646-5867 gs, Giant Slid Pizza & Win ts e ge Chicken N ug s ce ie Pri Fr lar & Regu $13.5 0 for Play All Day Buffet Gre at for Family ties Kid s 10 a Par nd Un bouncemagic.com der My, That’s Bulky. More power to teachers who can make lessons three-dimensional wonders of elbow noodles, glue, and glitter. Have your child pose with the masterpiece. Get several shots. Make sure you get a good one. Then “store” the masterpiece in the basement or garage on a special shelf or rack set aside for amazing artwork. When the shelf is full, take some shots of the whole range of work, from many angles. Then discretely dispose of the whole lot at the beginning of each new school year, leaving room for more. Share The Wealth. At some point, you will have your paper trail tamed but there is virtually nothing you can (or should) do to hamper your child’s insatiable desire to create. Encourage your little Picasso instead. Keep manila envelopes addressed and ready-to-mail to relatives in one of your cloth wall pockets so you can easily capture and share some of the seasonal artwork overflow for relatives. You’ve got a lot of pa- per joy floating around your home — you may as well share the wealth. Happy back to school! Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz likes school, back-to-school shopping, and even some of the parents who insist on double-parking at child pick-up time, but paper clutter doesn’t stand a chance. THE ARCHANGEL 8 CHESS ACADEMY Serving the Buffalo and Lockport communities in various locations since 1999 PLAY BETTER SCHOLASTIC CHESS! Designed for 3rd graders to 8th graders Contact USCF COACH Undefeated MICHAEL A. MCDUFFIE Scholastic Chess To Learn More… Champion, Rayvant Email: KNIGHTSOF [email protected] Pendyala. Or visit www.knightsof64.com September 2019 WNY Family 13