LIFE STYLE
Think about this, if someone
forms an opinion about you
or you are criticized for your
actions, will that make a
difference to you unless you
take it into your head?
Let’s get reasonable and
admit it that we get affected
and sometimes so badly that
it hampers our peace of mind
and is psycologically disturbing
to an extent that we fear to
hear a negative comment
about ourselves.
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This fear and habit of taking
everything too personally
is solely the reason for our
disrupted peace and never-
ending disappointments. It
could be not getting a response
to a message to someone
telling you that you have a bad
sense of humor. Do you think
it is fair to take everything to
heart and forget who you are?
No! If you are affected today
because someone said
something to you or if your
peace is always targeted when
you hear bad about yourself,
you should follow these tips
and learn how to stop letting
people bother you with their
words or actions
No 1 - Discern
That You Are Not
A Remote Control
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Can you predict or control
what you are going to feel
the next day? No, right?
When you cannot do it for
yourself, is it in your control
to stop a person from feeling
or saying what they want to?
Every individual is different.
Good and bad is there in all
of us. You will find sensible
people to the most evil-
minded. We are in a world
and it is quite obvious that
you cannot escape how
people think about you.
Take Away
It would make sense to feel
bad if you were an automatic
remote control. You could
keep a check on what people
say and think. In reality, you
are not and when the control
is not yours the best you can
do is to let it go.
No 2 - Time To
Make A Few
Choices
If a friend of yours comes
up with her opinion that is
not in your favor. It can be
disappointing, but, the choice
is for you to make of ignoring
it or taking it seriously. A
situation will arise anytime,
the tackling part is based on
the choices you make.
Take Away
You either talk for yourself or
don’t let it affect you. If you
think it is worth molding and
bringing up a few changes
in yourself, then go for it. If
you think cutting off with the
person gives you peace, just
go for it and if you want to be
the mature one and ignore it,
you can do it with all pleasure.
No 3 - Look Into
Yourself
Is it always the opposite
person who is at a fault? Isn’t
it possible that even you are
going wrong at somewhere?
May be or maybe not. So,
when you are upset with
another person you need to
look into yourself and see if
you provoked or were a part of
the upsetting situation or not.
Take Away
If you are upset that your
friend is talking behind your