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LIFE STYLE to have a meal. In the moment of grief if you can be kind to yourself it would be of great help to you. Way 5 - Suppressing Grief Is Unhealthy You need not suppress whatever you feel. It is best to talk about it or write it down. When you talk about it, see to it that you talk to the right person who would not just understand your situation but the person would give you advise for your betterment. 84 You should express what is your grief, why is it bothering you and what is bothering you the most. When you open up, there is no guarantee that you would get the best solution but something is better than nothing. Way 6 - Connect To Someone In Your Shoes Finding someone who is going through similar grief can exactly know what it feels like. That said, meet and talk to a person who has faced or is facing a candid situation. When the two of you converse you can advise each other and help one another through the grief. Way 7 - Find A Source Of Light In Darkness WWW.WISHESH.NET | AUGUST 2019 Every dark path has one spot of brightness if you look for it you will find it. Say, for instance, you bought a car with your hard-earned money and somehow you lost it. In this unfortunate situation as well you have to face your sorrow, give yourself time to heal and see what best you can do to either buy another car or save up money to buy it in the near future. Thus, you cannot hold on to your sorrow and close your eyes to the ray of hope that is still existing. Having said, be thankful for everyone and everything else that you have and so man people in the world are deprived of it. It is you who has to identify where is the hope in the darkest situation and no one else can help you with that.