WinningLife Magazine January 2017 | Page 15

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rnest Wamboye is a disciple of Jesus Christ, a husband, a father, an author and a speaker. Ernest has authored two books,

1.The Human Temple, a novel, and Lust and the

2. City- a guide on sexual purity

You can reach earnest through:

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No relationship is disrespect-proof

Turi and I experienced a renewal in the relationship. I noticed that the girls respected me when I drew the boundaries. They respected Turi more. Even still, no relationship is disrespect-proof. Someone somewhere doesn’t care about what you have. Someone somewhere still has the audacity to try flirt with your significant other even in your presence. When that happened, Turi and I wouldn’t not let the offense separate us.

We stood together. I wouldn’t get angry and ask why the intruder was calling her on our honeymoon (and he was by the way). Instead, I became her partner and helped fight the intruder. We fought it together. I picked up her phone on our honeymoon and the not-so-gentleman on the receiving end was surprised that the husband picked up. Once you say “I do!”, you can act married. Those who noticed you didn’t act married while you were dating may be shocked that your phone can be picked by your partner.

Marriage made our relationship more exclusive but it didn’t stop intruders from trying to squeeze for a place on the two-seater couch. It didn’t stop a few girls from getting excited over our special memories more than we did. It didn’t stop a few guys from thinking they would get exclusive time with my wife even after we were married. But it stopped them from doing it a second time when we put up a united front and declared the relationship exclusive in speech, conduct and action. The couch in now a two-seater with only two seated and there is room to stretch; I advise you to make yours the same.