The best way to make love work is to make it exclusive
Confront threats to exclusivity!
Aliquam varius adipiscing tempor. If your exclusivity in your relationship is threatened, confront it! Don’t assume it will go away. Don’t pretend it does not exist. Don’t simmer in anger and silence. Don’t assume your partner knows. You have a will power; exercise it; confront it. Turi’s confrontation was clear as day; she wasn’t going to share my heart. If the girls on the overcrowded couch did not leave, she wasn’t going to stay. Respect your partner for that courage.
There are few things that hurt a human heart when love is not reciprocated, especially after you agree mutually on a standard. Before you call him/her jealous, hear their heart out. I foresaw the possibility of a break-up because I loved the egotistical sound of ladies saying they wished they had a boyfriend like me, because in lust I did not protest the several kisses on the cheek, because in folly I forgot that I loved Turi, because in the pride of life, I wanted to be “the man.” I bit the dust because all these things I was pursuing and putting up a false front of “we’re just friends” were not giving me the satisfaction I hoped they would. It was time to live up to my words. It was time to make the relationship exclusive. I prayed to God to grant me the strength to do so and He did. Making the promise did not make me capable; it made me accountable.
Make the wrongs right
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