WINDOWS Magazine Winter 2016 | Page 20

wo r k p l ac e h e a lt h & sa f e t y Maureen Kyne Maureen Kyne and Associates E mployers need to be concerned about the increase in psychological claims, averaging $250,000 as reported in the 2012 Comcare report. If these statistics reflect your workplace, are your leaders contributing to bullying in your workplace and, if so, what are you doing about it? The line between a leader and a bully can be a fine one. In fact, powerful leaders and bullies share many of the same qualities, which tend to be: • Assertiveness • Confidence • Competitiveness • Determination • Charisma • Independence • Manipulation Deciding if your leader is a bully or not is not all that hard. Leaders and bullies have a lot in common, as shown in the seven characteristics above, but they do differ in two very important ways; respect and compassion. Are your leaders contributing to bullying? Here is a snapshot to ascertain quickly whether your leaders are bullies or not. A Leader A Bully Listens and observes. Don’t just see and hear, they really listen and observe. Is attuned to their surroundings. Self-centred. Can’t understand the needs and feelings of others. Leads by example. ‘Walks the talk’; does what they say, when they say it. Dominates and intimidates others: “It’s my way or the highway. I am the boss.” Shows interpersonal skills and empathy for others. Provides encouragement. Lacks empathy for others. Ridicules and demoralises others. Communicates at all levels eliminating barriers and resolves problems. Surrounds themselves only with people who agree with them. Believes in the abilities of their people and trusts them to do well. Has low expectations of everybody and low levels of trust. Shares information and ownership and demonstrates transparency. Withholds information and uses it as a weapon for own empowerment. Is assertive when necessary, steps into manager role responsibilities. Is aggressive and uses power plays creating fear and crushing confidence. Emotionally mature (Higher EI). Emotionally immature (Lower EI). Leaders care about others. Bullies don’t. I hear you say that you would expect all of your workers to have these two traits and I would agree with you. Have you communicated this to your leaders and workforce? Where is it written? Do you have a Mission, Vision and Values, and how are they communicated? These are the basis for communicating the culture for your organisation. For more information, contact Maureen Kyne: 18 Australian Window Association t. 1300 136 146   m. 0437 022 246   e. [email protected]   w. www.maureenkyne.com.au