FOREWORD
Do you have a witness or just a barely-there companion?
As a single lady and growing up into the woman I am now, the word
‘dating’ has meant many and different things for me especially at differ-
ent stages of my life. These have ranged from the high thrill and emotion
ridden feelings to the more bated expression of peace when you are with
or thinking about a certain person or even the adrenaline pumped excite-
ment you get from doing something with someone that you normally
would think of as being out of this world crazy; but in that moment it
makes sense or is needed by both of you.
Looking back on all those times, they were moments that I opened myself
up and allowed someone else to know me; and that feeling in itself means
everything to me because I can live with the memories forever.
Whenever I think of marriage and what it should mean, I think of the
movie ‘Shall We Dance?’ featuring Richard Gere, Jennifer Lopez and
Susan Sarandon. Though a dance movie, it highlights on the importance
of personal fulfilment, happiness and how friendship is a more important
need for a successful marriage.
As you read this eBook, I hope that you will (just as I have) find ways to
recommit to being a witness, finding and keeping your own witness for
life. Happy date-nighting!
PS: Being a Local Guide, I can’t help but gift you this list of beaches and
resorts you can plan to visit or explore on your date night journey, click
here
Lerato Lekena-Okoro
Founder, Lerato & Adams