Love me or Love me NOT!
Break up for the Holidays or Stay?
Have you ever been dumped, avoided or otherwise put off around the holiday season? How did it make you feel? Have you ever been the person to initiate the breakup during the holidays? If you have been the person to initiate the breakup , have you ever considered waiting until after the holidays?
Here’s why we asked.
In some small city or large metropolitan area there sits a man or woman, lonely, sad, depressed, heartbroken and confused who's looking with aqua filled eyes through a rain dropped window pane wondering “what did I do wrong”?
The city is draped with garland, the carolers are singing songs of praise and cheer, but no matter the spirit of the city, loneliness is what most people fear this time of year. The likes of women and men everywhere are experiencing heartbreaks by the tons. Old, young, sexy, pretty and plain; no one seems to be able to escape the breakup pain of the holidays.
We've searched for answers on why this happens. Cont. Pg. 2
For the lucky ones here's looking at your kid.
Break up Around the Holidays?
Need a Change?
You must know that change is a constant. Nothing stays the same. Growth is the only way of obtaining any goal. When you decide to change, may it be for the good of all persons involved. That includes your spouse, your children and those close to you. If you have been toying with the idea of change, keep in mind that as long as you are toying with the idea, nothing happens until you put things in motion. We encourage you to change something for your own good today. Go for it, what do you have to lose?
Breaking up for the holidays? Consider these five things before you go thru with it:
One:
Are there kids involved? Meet with a therapist in advance to get advice on how to break the news to your children. Be prepared to answer their questions.
Two:
Evaluate your mutual relationships. Be ready to accept their reactions to your breakup.
Three:
Be prepared to deal with the emotional response from your ex.
Four:
Find time to refocus, repair, renew, and regenerate.
Five:
Take action. Plan your next steps. Be prepared to start over.
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