Alcyan: mostly sexual?
Alvise Cliassi: even sexual, yes, but apart from sexual or sado-masochist, enjoying a lifestyle that allows the submissives to trust their Masters to bring them to a point where their needs and happiness are reached together. I talk about "Masters" and "submissives" because we're a maledom community
A just sexual D/s relationship is something that (to me at least) become boring really fast. Just sexual D/s you can get at any "free sex" sim. In my experience to a D/s lifestyle there is a lot more, it's a relationship but in some ways (like trust) going even deeper.
Alcyan: What do you mean by maledom community?
Alvise Cliassi: meaning, that here we don't have female Dominants or male submissives
Here I train the new submissives, take care of all the girls, and I act as mentor for the new Dom members who wants to become Masters and more in general, I try to contribute with my presence to the social life of this small community
I know that there are many ideas about those who live our lifestyle
Alcyan: Can you be more specific on that?
Alvise Cliassi: well, I think that normally our life is associated with violence and abuse or, it is considered a kinky way for have sex. Actually, there is much more, so it's always good to try to explain well what we do and what we *don't* do. You see, training a girl, it depends a lot by the single person. Some come here, with a really deep RL or SL experience in D/s and BDSM, others are totally new and green, so we have to see every time how much they know and what is important to make them understand, before somebody gets hurt