The 5-year plan
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By now you probably have made these “plans” in your head once or twice. Whether you’re super methodical about it or just have an idea to talk about when someone asks, it’s good to have goals and know what you want in your life. Keep in mind, they don’t have to be set in stone, but having things in your life to reach for makes for great motivation!
How to say NO
A lot of us are people pleasers to a fault. But if you say yes to everyone not only will you wear yourself out, you won’t do your best job and you might end up hurting someone’s feelings if you have to cancel. Learn what you can handle and when to say “no” or “rain check.” You don’t have to do it all!
Learn to purge
As you gain years you also gain all of the things you purchased in those years. Make an effort to keep it simple and not stick yourself with a lot of clutter. If you’re already down that rabbit hole, make a plan to purge a few times a year. For example, go through your closet once every season and donate or sell anything you didn't wear!
Take care of yourself
Sometimes we get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of every day life that we forget to do things like make doctor’s appointments or take our makeup off before bed. Both of these things are equally important. Taking care of your mind, body and soul is key to being your best self! So don’t avoid that teeth cleaning and don’t feel bad to take a day to squeeze in some R&R now and then!
Reject selfishness in relationships
All kinds of relationships require time and effort. Whether its a significant other, friend or family member, there is no one that you will get along with 100% of the time. You’ll have arguments and you’ll do things to bother each other, but in order to maintain a solid relationship you have to be willing to work through those things. So often people give up on each other because they don’t want to be bothered with “patching the holes in the road.” Recognize your selfishness and let it go. Relationships are two way streets and you each need to give as much as you receive.