Vital Link No 75 Summer 2019 | Page 2

Listening and Speaking Up By Fiona Gosden, Deputy Church Inclusion Co-ordinator Contact Details Through the Roof, Alpha House, Alpha Place, Garth Road, Morden, Surrey, SM4 4TQ Phone: 01372 749955 Email: [email protected] Web: www.throughtheroof.org Our Vision ‘… is all people enjoying life together, mutually giving and receiving, as God intended’ Our Mission '… is transforming lives through Jesus with disabled people’ Through the Roof Charitable Trust Ltd is a UK Registered Company number 04201510 with offices at Alpha House, Alpha Place, Garth Road, Morden, Surrey, SM4 4TQ. It is also a Registered Charity Number 1087788. Quotes are sometimes edited for clarity and length Vital Link is designed and printed by PDC Design & Print www.pdc-kingston.co.uk Over the last few years, God has been speaking to me about church inclusion for disabled people. After I became a Christian at University, I quickly connected to a fantastic church and I didn’t give access much thought. I’m a wheelchair user, but I can also get out of my wheelchair, so churches that are not physically accessible were not really a barrier. I began to notice access needs—for example, I remember watching an assistance dog during a service curious to see if the dog responded in worship—but apart from a few observations, I didn’t speak up. This changed when I moved to Manchester and God spoke to me clearly. I knew that I needed to act to remove barriers then to make it possible for all people to connect with God. God first spoke clearly to me about inclusion at my own church. I don’t need my wheelchair for the service, so I leave it in the car. On this Sunday, my husband suggested I use my wheelchair. I was confused and didn’t feel I needed it. I realised why God spoke to him later, as I was sitting in my wheelchair and someone else in a wheelchair introduced herself. It was her first time visiting. She had been to other churches, but had not felt included. We talked about how people don’t mean to exclude disabled people, but often disabled people have more obstacles to feeling comfortable and welcome. She described how more people talk to her when she isn’t in her wheelchair, so often she would try and walk. This is a challenge I’ve experienced everywhere. When someone wheels into a room, people naturally How could you speak up for the disabled people in your church? clear a path, making it difficult to mingle and meet new people. Disability equality charity Scope found that 67% of people feel “uncomfortable” talking to disabled people. Isolation can be as much of a barrier as physical obstacles. Churches can include wheelchair users, not just by making the building accessible, but by challenging why they might feel uncomfortable talking to a disabled person, and talking to them anyway! I’m thankful God connected me to this lady, who has made the church her home. I’m confident that the joy of meeting her, and hearing her honesty, prompted me to make a difference by equipping churches to be more inclusive. How could you speak up for disabled people in your church? Sign up for our Roofbreaker programme by calling the office, and we can support you. Manor Time By Jenny Edwards M.B.E. Sixteen Through the Roof holidaymakers spent a very special few days at the lovely Brunel Manor, Torquay. We all gathered for four days of exploring ‘The Shepherd and his sheep’, starting with Ezekiel 34. This is well worth a read, you’ll discover the wonderful love of a Saviour who will never let us down. We enjoyed our studies, but had all afternoons free, so everyone visited the areas around Brunel. It only took 3 minutes by car to be able to enjoy a lovely walk in sunshine along famous Babbacombe Beach. Having eaten very well, sung a lot, prayed with and for each other, shared communion and testimonies it was all too soon time to say goodbye, with a promise of meeting up for another time out with God next year (6 to 10 April 2020). It’s not too early to apply! www.throughtheroof.org Sharing a special few days If you would like to share a similar time with us at High Leigh Conference centre in Hoddesdon (23 to 25 August), we still have a few places available and would love you to join us. Please ring 01372 749955 for more information.