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Member Clubs “He is respected not only for his tenure and knowledge of his profession, but for the way that he treats every single person with kindness and respect.” — Matt Smiley with dignity and class, and a reminder of the old-school mentality of showing up to work every day with a servant mentality to help others.” Barry doesn’t like being the center of attention. He’s all about the other person. He greeted everyone who walked into his pro shop with a handshake. “He’d be sitting at his desk—when he’d actually sit down for a second—he’d hear the door open…then he’d jump up from the desk and the hand would come out,” Shanley says. “Every person who walks through the door, when they were coming in or when they were leaving, two times a day times 100 rounds, that’s 200 hand- shakes in one day, and those are just for the golfers.” Barry was inducted into the MAPGA Hall of Fame in 2014 for his service, ded- ication and contributions to a game he became involved with when he was 9 years old in Chicago Heights, Ill. The MAPGA recognized Barry with the Horton Smith Award (three times) for excellence in PGA member education; the President’s Award (1990); the Bill Strausbaugh Award (1992); and the Pro- fessional of the Year Award (1994). The VSGA honored Barry with its “Service to the Game” award in 2012. He held officer and committee posi- tions in the Virginia section/Southern Chapter of the organization. Johns says, “He was one of the best Rules officials in the entire region. When- ever there was a question about some- thing, you could call Tom or [the VSGA’s] Clyde Luther or Dr. Lew Blakey ( both of whom are in the Virginia Golf Hall of Fame). If anybody knew anything about rules or integrity it was Tom Barry.” vsga.org Barry says he will continue to keep his Rules knowledge up to date and will continue to be available to answer Rules questions. What Barry is most famous for are the handwritten notes he’s penned to more people than you can count. “He was the king of the thank you note, a long-forgotten art,” Guhl says. “It is amazing to me how many of our PGA pro- fessionals, who accomplished something big like playing in the PGA Championship, or winning an award, who mentioned to me that they received a note from Tom.” At Barry’s retirement party at the club, Shanley asked everyone in the room who had received a note from Barry to raise their hand. “There were 400 people in here. Every hand in that room went up,” Shanley said. Said Wilson, “The supportive (one of his words) part was what really impressed me because anything that any club member wound up doing that represented Lakeside well or won something Tom was there, and he would always write these notes.” The notes were Barry’s way of serving. They thanked. They congratulated. They encouraged. They consoled or commis- erated. He went to funerals of family members of club members. “The number one thing I’ve learned is how to carry yourself as a professional; how to treat people; how to take care of your members; how to take care of their guests. He’s the most special person I’ve ever encountered,” Shanley says. Says Unowitz, “It’s hard to describe in a few words what Tom Barry meant to me as our PGA club professional. If I were a young person getting into a club pro job, I would want to emulate him.” Then there’s the sports jacket. “They are not tech fabric; they’re old school. They don’t breathe very well,” says Shanley, who has not followed his mentor’s footsteps. When was working at a club in Chicago, his boss, David Ogilvie, made his assis- tants wear one all the time. “He said it makes you pretty distinctive if you have a coat on,” Barry said. “If you want to keep a wallet in there or nowadays a phone or whatever, you’ve got some- where to put it. I could write notes down. If somebody gives you a card, you have somewhere to put it.” He wore one no matter the tempera- ture. He washed carts wearing one. He wore one everywhere at the club. Barry says his life as a club professional has “probably been better than I thought it would be…I enjoyed every minute of it. I rubbed elbows with a lot of good people. My work was respected. I couldn’t ask for a whole lot more than that.” Asked if he felt like an institution or an icon, he laughed loudly and said, “I don’t know about that. That’s a little much. There’re a thousand guys who do a lot better and work harder than me…I’m glad to get all the good comments I get about myself. That’s always nice.” TROPHY CASE Tom Barry’s achievements and contributions to the game of golf were recognized with many accolades. Among them, he received: I  nduction into the MAGPA Hall of Fame  he Horton Smith Award T (three times) The President’s Award The Bill Strausbaugh Award The Professional of the Year Award The VSGA Service to the Game Award J U LY / A U G U ST 2 0 19 | V I R G I N I A G O L F E R 15