Vantage Vu Volume 22 | Page 15

kinds of communication platforms; I communicate for a living. For me communication has been my life, and so that is why I say they are all challenging in their own way, and they are part of a learning process, and we learn from our mistakes. I like to play around, and that how I learn more about I am doing at that time.

Nm: How do we start addressing the issue of GBV?

BM: I think it starts with males having conversations with their friends. When I was younger I used to attend workshops about abuse, and I realized that we have been doing the same things for years, and we need to be talking to the actual abusers because we can’t keep speaking amongst ourselves, we need to speak to the relevant people, so it starts in that circle, as a friend you know have that friend and as guys you can’t seem to address certain situations. I have male friends, and there are certain situations that make them feel uncomfortable when it comes to the female species… So if I make you uncomfortable as a female, you guys will barely say anything to each other.

circle, as a friend you know have that friend and as guys you can’t seem to address certain situations. I have male friends, and there are certain situations that make them feel uncomfortable when it comes to the female species… So if I make you uncomfortable as a female, you guys will barely say anything to each other.

NM: What should those looking to make it know about chasing your dreams?

BM: There is no excuse when it comes to reaching your dreams. You have to know what you want, you have to be intentional about it. It starts with you knowing what you want. We all have our struggles, I have had my own struggles, but there is no time to entertain struggles. Plan your life and be intentional.