Understanding Abandonment February 2023 | Page 12

Dawson Talks

About Parent

Abandonment

with Eric

Eric’s mom and dad split before he was born. His mom was always emotionally distant with him. His grandmother said it was due to her not being ready to have a child and not knowing how to communicate with a child. When Eric was 8 years old, his mom remarried a guy who one year later starting beating Eric and continued to do so over and over again until he was 16 years old. What do you think Dawson said to Eric?

a) “Your mom was a victim, there was nothing she could have

done to help you.”

b) “You have mother abandonment issues which are some of

the most difficult issues and heart breaking ones you can

possibly have...Let’s get into some counseling right away.”

c) “It’s heartbreaking but there is nothing you can do about

it now.”

d) None of the above.

Sometimes it helps to know others have gone through similar experiences to yours. You can listen to these conversations and apply the help Dawson gives to your own life. Listen to find the answer to these questions.