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The same is true for emotional intimacy. If you let familiarity build too much, then the freedom of anonymity is lost. As you spend more time brushing
The irony here is the men who do want to create deep connections with girls are usually the men who are too big pussies to do it.
your teeth next to each other like you were brothers, the girl slowly and unconsciously blocks off certain parts of her life. You’ ll only find out about her $ 80,000 credit card debt a couple weeks before the wedding. Think of relationships the same way you would think of a developing brain. You can learn a foreign language when you’ re 15, but you’ ll learn it better and easier when the brain is younger, in a stage of high neuroplasticity and development. Similarly, relationships develop continuously throughout their lifespan, but it’ s in those first few weeks in which most of the parameters are set. Maybe you’ re in the stage of your life in which you don’ t want to find out about the time the girl you’ re dating was molested. And that’ s fine. But if you’ re not only looking to have sex but create deep connections with girls, fortune favors the fast. Ask those seemingly inappropriate questions about her father. Bring up her relationship with her mother. Inquire about how she feels about her small tits, and let it go. She will be comfortable with it as long as you’ re comfortable with it. The female mind craves a man’ s sincere communication like nothing else. To paraphrase the plight of a girl I dated:‘ Jesus Christ we’ re all so bored we just want you to talk to us. You know? Really talk to us’. You know you’ re doing this correctly if you and the girl feel the need to bone down just to keep pace with the emotional atmosphere. The irony here is the men who do want to create deep connections with girls are usually the men who are too big pussies to do it. Broaching provocative topics may get you burned a few times, but like creating physical intimacy, creating emotional intimacy takes practise. As with boner pressing a girl, after a few blow ups, your brain will adjust to sensitive situations, and question like‘ so, when were you molested?’ will become as natural as‘ what do you do for work?’ How to build relationships As I alluded to at the beginning of this article, like the brain can get strung out on porn, maybe the brain can be strung out on intimacy. Too much, too soon, over and over again, may feel good at first, but the costs of the bender eventually outweigh the consequences. The weekend is only two and a half days for a reason. The promise of deep connection and intimacy is one less thing driving us to get married. After you’ ve known more than ten girls on a deeper level than their husbands will know them, there’ s less of an incentive to pick one
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