Love yourSelf and what matters to you. Once your Heart is available to this part, your relationship to yourSelf has already changed: You are open to your own needs, even if it means that 'someone out there' doesn't agree. You simply don't leave your own Values anymore in the hope that someone will love you.
Now you are starting the relationship that you were hoping to get with someone 'out there,' and now you can finally attract someone who will resonate with your Values ... or joyfully feeling deeply content in Being in a Loving relationship with your Self.