LOSING
SOMEONE DEAR
You can never understand the pain caused by the loss of a dear friend, relatives or acquaintance. Putting yourself in the shoe of the person crying in front of you is not enough. You have to have felt that pain before, to know that it is tuff.
It’s more than any other pain, because you realise that you ll never see that person again. That s even what makes it more painful. And all what you possess of him or her, are and will be the memories you once shared.
It is only after I lost someone that I understood the meaning of, ~I don’t know if I could ever be fine~, ~I don’t know if I will make it~ ~ life will never be the same again without..~. Clearly there are other expressions you can get from people who are wrecked after losing a dear person. It can take months even years before they can really heal from that shock and it’s simply understandable.
However, it is important to know and realise that we are born and we are made to die. God has allocated to each of us, a certain time on earth we should consider and use carefully.
curtain of time.
Have you noticed that after the death of someone, life carries on? Yes life carries on. Your beloved is no more but you are still alive and believe me one day you will him/her meet again because death is just a change of dimension. Therefore, stand and carry on, stand and do what you have to do and do it best.
I know it is hard and the shock is strong,
Take your time to heal and as a therapy I followed:
Kneel down and pray, free your pain at the foot of the cross. Take your time to heal.
Sometimes take a pen and a paper, and then write.
Write all what you feel, all what you want that person to know .
Surtout, do not stay alone during that time
Do something that will be an entertainment for you.
Something is certain; you never know the background of life. You never know why God as allowed one to die and another to live. It can be that lifetime was already up for that person; it could be to prevent someone from turning wrong in its near future or just that the person by its own decisions and actions precipitated himself beyond the curtain of time.
precipitated himself beyond the curtain of time.
We are not eternal and our lives are not for life. Therefore let us live for God and dedicate our lives to him and implore his help in prayer so we can live and do what we were supposed to.
Definitely, you ll miss your lost dearest from time to time. It is simply a normal feeling but don’t sit on that. That person is already one and will never come back. You on the other hand, will follow. Also, remember that your dearest is in a place where there are no worries, hungriness etc. So Heal and carry on.